My knee-jerk reaction, habit from my more traditional relationships, was to try to give him what he wanted.
What It's Like Being A Black Woman In A Dom/Sub Relationship With A White Man
Yet here were several white men presenting themselves to me — even if I had to weed out the creeps, just as I would have to do offline.
Because of his age and appearance, I didn't feel threatened by his ignorance, even though his desire for a Strong Black Woman to take control of him sexually was an echo of other messages I'd received via OkCupid.
Close-cropped, wavy strawberry blond hair. And neither is my sexual appetite.